Thursday, April 28, 2011

The 10 Biggest Fitness Mistakes

As a personal trainer and health coach, I finally figured out that it might actually be beneficial to blog about something I know something about. Novel, right? 

Anyway, I found this Top Ten list on a site called the TheNest.com (great for newlyweds, by the way!), and I couldn't agree with it more. I originally read the article with expectations of critiquing it, but I actually love what they're saying so...I thought I'd  add a little commentary and share it with you.


The 10 Biggest Fitness Mistakes

Mistake #1: You don’t work out because you’re afraid it will make you super-hungry -- and eat more.

Actually, the opposite is true. Exercise has actually been shown to act as an appetite suppressant. Translation: Regular trips to the gym can actually help you stick to your diet. In fact, excess hunger is usually caused because you're not providing your body with all of the nutrients it needs, so it craves them! The point is, as long as you're eating nutritious foods, you won't negate your hard work, even if you eat a bit more. So if you're hungry all the time, don't blame the gym -- blame your diet.

 

Mistake #2: You make a point to exercise first thing in the morning, on an empty stomach, to burn more calories.

Just like in college when you might have studied during the day while your roommate went the all-nighter route, some people are morning exercisers and some feel more motivated at night. The key is consistency, so you'll get the best results by choosing whatever time of day you can stick to. If you do go the before-work route, just make sure you have a little something to eat (like a piece of fruit) 30 minutes before your workout. Like a car, your body needs fuel to run efficiently, so when you exercise on an empty stomach, you can't train as hard (or burn as many calories). 

Mistake #3: You’re a crunching queen (or king!) - hey, it’s the way to get rock-hard abs.

Crunches alone will not give you a flat stomach. The fact is, if you want a killer core, you need to train all the abdominal muscles -- the rectus abdominus, the transverse, and the obliques - along with your lower back. A good way to hit them all is through functional movements like lifting, throwing, etc. But wait! There’s a part two to all of this: Building ab muscles isn't going to do you any good come bathing-suit season if they're hidden under a layer of fat. No matter how many sit-ups you do, without regular bouts of cardio (at least 30 minutes, four to five days a week) and a healthy diet, you're never going to sport a six-pack. 

Mistake #4: You spend two-hours-plus at the gym to max out your workout.

It's not about how long you spend working out; it's about how hard you work out. So you have permission to spend less time at the gym. The catch is, you have to kill it while you're there. You can easily burn the same amount of calories in half the time by increasing the intensity of your workouts. Bonus: By working out at a higher intensity, you'll continue to burn more calories for hours afterward.

Mistake #5: You have your routine down.

Unfortunately, what works, works only for a short period. Just like your mind has to work extra hard to learn something new, your body kicks into overdrive when you start a new exercise program it's not familiar with. If you do the same routine for too long, your body will adapt -- and soon what used to "work" no longer will (at least not as well). The key to seeing results is to constantly challenge your body and practice variety in your workouts so you don't plateau. So change it up -- the tweaks don't have to be big. For example, change a barbell squat to a dumbbell squat, or swap dumbbells for kettlebells or sandbags. Or instead of your standard 30 minutes on the elliptical, do the elliptical in reverse for 10 minutes, then hop on the rowing machine for 10 minutes and finish with 10 minutes on the treadmill. Then reverse the order in your next workout. 

Mistake #6: You stay fit by working out 30 minutes a day, three times a week.

There is a big difference between being active and being fit. The above guidelines are the bare minimum for keeping you active, which means you're basically just avoiding some of the negative effects of a sedentary lifestyle. Being fit, on the other hand (and losing weight, or just maintaining it), takes more work. That means at least four to five sweat sessions a week of hard work. Clients, this is where the hard part comes in - you have push yourself, even when you're not in the studio. 

Mistake #7: You stick to cardio and avoid weights so you don’t bulk up.

Sure, lifting weights can bulk you up (the Arnold didn’t get those biceps at Zumba class), but only if you specifically train to add mass. If you train to tone, you’ll tone. You have total control over the effect weight lifting will have on your body. And guess what? The size of the weight has little to do with muscle mass. The size of your muscles is determined by three main factors: Genetics (were you born with the structure for large musculature?), gender (men have a greater potential to put on size) and type of training (it’s not the size of the weight but how you lift it). In general, if you use light weights and do more reps, you’ll get sleek, lean muscle. Up the weights, slow it down and maximize the squeeze to bulk up. 

Mistake #8: You don’t feel any payoff unless your body hurts.

Some discomfort or soreness at the beginning stages of a workout routine is normal, since your muscles are adjusting to the new activities. It means you're challenging your body, which, in turn, means results. But chronic soreness doesn't mean you're getting an awesome workout every day. It means your body's not recovering -- which is bad since you get stronger and develop muscle while your body recovers.

Mistake #9: You climb off the treadmill when it says you’ve reached your calorie goal.

Hate to break it to you, but the calorie calculation displayed on most of those machines isn't accurate. Many pieces of equipment are built to show you what you want to see. And the assumptions needed to validate the machine's calculations are seldom met. So use the counters as a light reference, but learn to do your own calculations if you want truly accurate numbers.

Mistake #10: You’re envious of celebs, who apparently all won the genetic lottery and don’t have to push it as hard as you do.

The truth is, most celebs work hard (just like you do) for their bodies (albeit, most of them under the guidance of a trainer, a nutritionist and a personal chef). So stop cursing their DNA and start making exercise and nutrition priorities in your life. Of course, what makes it a little easier for celebrities is the fact that looking good is basically their job -- and a paycheck is major motivation not to slack off. Whereas your livelihood depends more on sometimes skipping the gym to make an early meeting, or prepping for a presentation or a huge exam. But you can do it!


Thursday, April 21, 2011

5 Ways to Act Like a Grown Up...Without Having to Grow Up

There are many things about me that scream "grown up!" For example:
-I've been married for nearly a year
-I enjoy quiet nights at home over 3 am get togethers
-I pay bills. A lot of them, in fact
-I work at a job where I am (for some unknown reason) considered a "professional" in my field.
-My social life is quickly and quietly slipping away with every fictional novel, every fun craft idea, and every 5 am alarm

Nevertheless, there are an equal (if not greater) number of things that guarantee my position in non-grown-up world for at least a little while longer...
-I am am still categorized as a "young twenty-something"
-I am a full time graduate student (even though by "full time," I mean a mere 9 hours)
-I still wear my sorority shirts, Nike shorts, and Chacos on a nearly daily basis
-I refuse to iron anything that comes out of the dryer
-There is not a single gray hair on my head (and trust me, I've looked)
-I have no desire whatsoever to own a house, have a baby, learn to sew, plan a family reunion, buy a minivan, or learn the defintion of an IRA

In light of this paradox, I must admit that I rather remain a kid. Nevertheless, it is important that I don't look like a complete nitwit, so I've been doing a few fun and simple things to make me feel like a grown up without having to sign my life away to the other side. 

Ladies and gentlemen, here are my TOP FIVE ways to act like a grown up...without having to grow up.

5. Plant Flowers
My snapdragons. I've also got some lillies & a ficus.
 Planting flowers tells the whole neighborhood that you mean business. Doing so forces a little bit of responsibility on you but ensures minimal guilt if the plant that you are attempting to care for does in fact kick the bucket.

4. Grow Veggies
We're growing basil, strawberries, & tomatoes.
This doesn't only make you feel like a grown up...it might make you feel like a grandparent. But that's okay, it's a fun experience, and it could save you money on groceries if you've got a green thumb.

3. Put Up a Bird Feeder
Our feeder sees a lot of cardinals & finches.
What better way to act like a grown up than to be in charge of feeding something besides yourself? If you're super nerdy, you can even learn about the birds that frequent your feeder.

 2.Take Up Baking
Kyle's favorite, my marble pound cake.
 Being in the kitchen...especially in the company of butter, sugar, and flower, creates the illusion of maturity and responsibility, and it always results in either yummy goodies or funny stories.
  
1. Get a Dog
Our 100% adorable Aussie-Sheltie mix, London.
 The best way to feel like a grown up? Take care of someone other than yourself. This could include having a baby, of course, but let's face it...dogs are way easier. I may be a little biased, but getting London has been one of the best "grown up" decisions we've ever made.    
   

Thursday, March 24, 2011

The Quotable Lewis

After two weeks of mid-term madness and 15-page research papers, I am very thankful to see this weekend nearing. Please pray for us; Kyle and I are exhausted, but thankful.

As mentioned, I just completed a 15-page research paper for my Theology I class. The topic I chose is "C.S. Lewis and the Problem of Evil." Lewis has long been my favorite author and apologist, and this tedious and difficult paper has revived my admiration of his writings. I thought it worthwhile, in light of this, to post a few of my favorite quotes from the man who called himself Jack...

"God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world."   -The Problem of Pain

"Tribulations cannot cease until God either sees us remade or sees that our remaking is now hopeless."   -The Problem of Pain

“Murder is no better than cards if cards can do the trick. Indeed the safest road to hell is the gradual one – the gentle slope, soft underfoot, without sudden turnings, without milestones, without signposts.”   -The Screwtape Letters



"Has this world been so kind to you that you should leave with regret? There are better things ahead than any we leave behind." -Letters to an American Lady


"We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased."   -Mere Christianity 

"When a man is getting worse, he understands his own badness less and less. A moderately bad man knows he is not very good: a thoroughly bad man thinks he is all right."   -Mere Christianity 


"Can a mortal ask questions which God finds unanswerable? Quite easily, I should think. All nonsense questions are unanswerable."   -A Grief Observed 

I may be a bit biased, but I would highly recommend that you pick up a book or two by Lewis. They read quite easily, and he writes everything from essays to apologetic literature to fairytales. Unless you are willing to die on the hill of distinctly Southern Baptist doctrine, there is much that you can stand to learn from this Episcopalian Oxford don.

Some of my favorites include:
Mere Christianity
The Screwtape Letters
A Grief Observed
Till We Have Faces
The Great Divorce
The Four Loves 



Cheerio.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

A Troubling Rant from Fellow Christians

I've tried and tried to ignore it, but after today, I cannot help but express my opinion on this matter. 


I have heard many Christians - friends and family members included - ridicule the media, fellow Christians, and myself for giving any attention to the two dogs in Japan who stuck by each other's side in the aftermath of the recent disaster. At every turn, I'm hearing Christians say, "Why are you reporting on dogs instead of the tragedy?" or "You should be more worried about the 500,000 Japanese people without a place to live than about the lives of two animals." 


On some level, these are fair assertions to make...but it also involves a tremendous amount of assumption on the part of the accusers. Nobody ever said that the media isn't reporting on larger issues tied to the disaster or that I don't care about the families without homes or the spiritual condition of those whose lives were lost. This story is a small, sweet reminder that there is still HOPE for Japan; that, despite everything, all is NOT lost. If it takes two measly dogs to remind the world of that, then so be it. 


So, unashamedly, I'd like to invite you to watch this news clip from Japan. Yes, it's about dogs. And no, I'm not less of a Christian for caring about it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k_8yIPLAJZQ

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Lately.

Life never slows down.

There is much that I could tell you about our adventures over the next few weeks. In short, Kyle got a new job, I got a raise, and London met a new best friend. In the way of school, it's slowly taking over our lives once again. In the way of future plans, well, there's a lot to be said there. So, let's take these stories one at a time...

JOBS
-Kyle and I have been praying for him to become a barista at a soon-to-open coffee shop in North Raleigh for some time now. This is no Starbucks-seeker gig, though - the owner is Christian who will be sending a percentage of his profits back to coffee growers in Africa. Anyways, the grand opening is currently set for March 19, and you guessed it...Kyle will be behind the counter.
-My job, which is wonderful and a great blessing to Kyle and myself, had begun to consume my time, thoughts, and energy. While this was beneficial for our bank account, it has been taking its toll on the rest of our lives. My boss is a sweet and understanding man, and he recognized this problem before it began to affect my work itself. As a solution, he offered to cut back my hours, give me a raise, and hire an evening trainer.


LONDON
-Our sweet dog has finally met a neighborhood friend! In fact, Kyle and I may have met some new friends as well. A couple living across the street from us recently got a sweet Sheltie named Khloe, and she and London are having quite a wonderful time together on walks and at the dog park. The couple, Clark and Sara, are newlyweds with no children and were married on the same day as Kyle and myself. I think that this little friendship may bring great blessing.

SCHOOL
-I should be more honest...school really isn't that bad - it's just frustrating. It takes up a lot of time, quizzes are impossible, and I've come to the somber conclusion that the reading is never, never done.

Cape Hatteras Lighthouse, Outer Banks, NC
FUTURE TRAVELS
- We've recently booked a weekend getaway to the Outer Banks for our anniversary. We are extremely excited about this, but pray with us that our financial discipline will prevail, that we may save wisely for this trip.
-Kyle and I are praying about a short-term mission trip in October. Please pray with us for discernment, finances, and a place for London to stay should we go.
-Our 2013 2-year deployment is set for the North Africa/Middle East region. We don't yet know what country we'll be going to, but, in case you haven't noticed, things aren't looking too peachy over there right now. Please pray with us for the gospel to break through during this time of unrest, and pray, of course, for peace.

Toodles.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Reflections on Asheville

Last weekend, Kyle and I had the great privilege of traveling to Asheville, North Carolina for a couple of nights. There, we were able to put aside reality for 48 hours and spent our time battling six inches of snow, exploring this eclectic mecca known as downtown Asheville, and reliving the enchanted history of the Biltmore estate.

First of all, the hotel was wonderful. Artsy, modern, and unique, it fit right in to the backdrop of downtown Asheville.








 Asheville was blanketed with about 6 inches of quality snow...a fitting addition to our getaway to the mountains. This beautiful scenery is only an extremely small portion of Biltmore's 265,000 acre estate.









Oh, and we ate a lot of really wonderful food, too.


When it was all said and done, we could have happily stayed in the mountains for several more days. But, as is always the case, life can't stay on hold forever, and there was a very sweet puppy anxiously awaiting our return Sunday evening. To those who have thought of visiting the Biltmore, I highly encourage it. Words cannot describe its expanse, and pictures wouldn't do it justice (which is probably for the better, because my camera battery died before we made it to the house).

And, should you find yourself in the hills of Asheville, we recommend a few tasty eats, including The Corner Kitchen, The Chocolate Fetish, and Tupelo Honey Cafe.

                                               Cheers.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Remembrances



Lately, I've been thinking a lot about my freshman year of college. To say that life was different then would be a severe understatement. Girls, remember this picture from Old Venice? I believe it was taken the night before our very first Ole Miss home game in 2007. As I look back through pictures from this epic journey through college, I am finding that there are many pieces of freshman life that I can never recover and deeply miss.

For example:

1. The Fab Four pictures


2. Suffering through rush with Emily Gasson


3. Playing intramural soccer with the greatest coach in the world


4. Creating adventures to Sardis...and starting illegal campfires on the beach


5. Sharing with others the wonders of Graceland Too


6. My very first Derby Day sunburn with Sarah and Claire


7. Seeing an old camp friend in an Ole Miss uniform


8. Leaving my heart in China with beautiful friends and a beautiful mission


8. Meeting my future husband for the very first time at Survival Weekend


Yep, there are a lot of memories that can never be recreated. But, on some level, that's the very beauty of them. The fact that they are irreplaceable guarantees that they might also become unforgetable. My life now is very beautiful and very blessed, and I wouldn't change it for the world. Nevertheless, I think it humbling and profitable to look back over the most wonderful moments in our lives. If we forget them, no matter how simple they may seem, we are doomed to forget how far we've come and from what path we have arrived at today.

So, here's to you, beautiful friends. May we never forget eachother, and may this new year bring with it precious memories, invaluable lessons, and overflowing grace.

Claire

Sunrise